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It’s so easy to blame someone else or something else for our problems. It’s only on reflection that people can look back and say “I made a mistake there” or “we both did” or “this decision clearly didn’t work out”.
When it comes to blame (especially when it comes to making the real decisions) it’s important to take time to consider things. Especially if the parties involved are anxious, inebriated or uneasy for one reason or another. I’ve met people who would consider the above as being weak. This in some cases would result in a speeding fine and in others it would be considered vigilant. Both need to be considered either way.
So, how is this workable? It really depends on how willing and able people are to accept how difficult (or simple) others find some tasks and subject matter. This can be dependent on a great deal of things.
I see it as something simple. Like a swear jar, perhaps doing an unpleasant task someone else doesn’t like or paying for something. Remind me if you like.
